Everybody Loves a good list.

It’s true. I find myself spending hours looking through them on Facebook. So I decided to do a list this week.

5 Reasons you can’t keep a man.

1                  1. You talk too much.  

When in a relationship, we tend to vent and tell our Parents, family members, and friends about the problems in our relationship. It seems like a good idea at first, but then you wonder why after you and your mate “make up,” they feel differently about the relationship. You definitely can’t expect your parents to just put the disagreement or all the bad things you just had to say behind them. It’s best to find one or two people who will listen without judging. If you don’t have anyone keep it to yourself.

2. You listen to other people opinions.

Guess what? All of your friends don’t have your best interests at heart. Some of them want what you have. They will give you advice, but sometimes it’s not very good advice. They will tell you that they saw him with a girl, have you acting a fool, and then you find out she was his cousin. It’s best to think for yourself and you decide on your own what’s best.

3. You’re too clingy.

Believe it or not, he has a life outside of you. He has friends and hobbies that he likes to take part of that don’t involve you. Every aspect of his life should not include you. As well as every aspect of your life should not include him. If you have a hobby or something to do in your spare time, do it. Spend some time getting to know yourself.

4.You’re too controlling.

K. Michelle said “You can’t raise a man” so ladies please stop trying. At the end of the day, he’s going to do what he wants to do. No man wants another woman besides his mom telling him what to do.

5.You don’t listen.

How many times does he have to tell you the same thing over and over? You don’t have to yield to his every beck and call, however, if you want to keep him, you need to take heed to certain things that he says.

True enough, women possess some of these traits naturally. You’re always going commit one or two of these. However, you need to choose a struggle! If you do all five, then maybe you need to check yourself.